Topic of the day : BACKSTABBER

     The underlying problem with many Backstabbers is a lack of self-esteem. Remember that Backstabbers are sneaky,slick,seductive, and sabotaging. Backstabbers specialize in saying the wrong thing at the wrong time to the wrong person. They put on a front that appears accommodating, loyal, and yes, even sacrificial. Then, without warning, they raise their knife,and by the time you see the glint of the blade, it's almost always too late. Backstabbers operate out of insecurity, believing they have to have perfect order to eliminate any threat to their power. Backstabbers ooze anger. In all likelihood, Backstabbers are quite pleasant and supportive on the surface. But that's a mask. Life would be so much easier if we didn't have to deal with men and women who make promises they have no intention of keeping.You know that you have been stabbed when you feel the deep pain of betrayal. I just think it's the wrong thing to do, and I think stabbing us in the back is wrong. I'll bet you would not list gossip,backstabbing or negativity as one of the desirable values you hold dear. Backstabbing, by the way, is not to be confused with a minor slipup like canceling lunch at the last minute or neglecting to return a phone call. Backstabbing occurs when a friend agrees with you when the tow of you are alone but later sides with your opponents in a social setting.